Ever find yourself short on whimsy just when you need it the most?
In the spirit of friendship, I’m declaring today

In my last post I suggested – no make that advocated – that when we find ourselves getting dragged down by the weight of the world, we could use whimsy as a lifeline back to sanity, resilience and perseverance … and in support of that advocacy, I’m dedicating this particular post as a present to Continue reading » Whimsy Day!

How do you regain your resilience when an elephant just sat on it?
Was it only a few weeks ago that I was jumping for joy? Indeed. But then a different kind of news came down the pike… Continue reading » An Elephant Sat On It

Where do you find your life lessons?
Play acts as a forward feed mechanism into courageous, creative, rigorous thinking…
— Tina Bruce
Sometimes life lessons are learned the hard way… and afterwards, we pick ourselves up and ask: Ok, what did I learn? And then we carry on.
Sometimes life lessons are learned the easy way… they’re delivered by other people who have learned and shared.
And sometimes life lessons are learned in Continue reading » Life Lessons From a Farmer on a Tractor

What do you do when everything seems to be going wrong?
Have you ever had one of those days when nothin’ goes right?
— Paul Thorn
Every once in a while – thank GOD not every day – I have one of those days when every little thing goes wrong: I fall back to sleep after I turn off the alarm, the coffeemaker doesn’t automatically brew, my hair’s a mess, my clothes don’t feel good, the outfit I’d like to wear isn’t clean, I can’t find the keys – and that’s just the start of my day!
When that happens, I feel a little like the scene in Romancing the Stone (It was “our” favorite, laughing out loud movie.) when the heroine slides down a wet slippery slope into the yucky mucky mud… I just want to wallow in a private PITY party for a while… but the day demands that I go on, NOW!
How ’bout you, been there, done that? If so, how’d you get on with your day? How did you turn Continue reading » Bad Hair Day, You Say?

Holidays got you down? How do you respond to frustration & exhaustion?
Laughter and tears are both responses to frustration and exhaustion. I myself prefer to laugh since there is less cleaning up to do afterward.
— Kurt Vonnegut, Jr.
’Tis the season for last minute EVERYTHING! There’s too much to do and a finite end-date for having those EVERYTHINGs done. I remember the year I got to January 1st and realized I hadn’t prepared and sent the Christmas cards. Oh well. I haven’t sent out Christmas cards since. One less chore to do. Don’t get me wrong, I do enjoy OP’s – Other People’s holiday greetings – so keep those cards and letters coming folks! And I’ll do my best to stay in touch both here at BouncebackCafe.com and however else our paths might cross.
And, while I’m not encouraging you to cease and desist on those traditions that you treasure, I do think we could all do with a time-out.
- Time to reassess what’s left on the list to decide what’s “nice-to-have” but not requisite for a good holiday celebration.
- Time to think deeply even if only momentarily about your core values and then act accordingly.
- Time to take a break and relax a little!
Continue reading » Need a Break from All the Ho Ho Ho?

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