I pushed a button

Who’s Pushing Your Buttons?

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If someone or something pushes your buttons – what happens next?

Between stimulus and response there is a space.
In that space is our power to choose our response.
In our response lies our growth and our freedom.

— Viktor E. Frankl

Some folks, especially those closest to us, know exactly what they can do to get us to react – they know just which buttons will push us over the edge.  In situations like that, do you often snap?  If so, your Continue reading » Who’s Pushing Your Buttons?

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Amazing!

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Habit is necessary; it is the habit of having habits, of turning a trail into a rut, that must be incessantly fought against if one is to remain alive.

— Edith Wharton

I am constantly surprised by what I have to relearn, over and over again.  Last weekend, was one of those surprising weekends.

Sunday was one of those days that tested my fortitude as a doggy mommy.  The first time we went out, AccuWeather informed me that it was 48° with a real feel of 54°.  So, I bundled up to take her out for the morning empty the dog exercise and rushed back inside.  I had no intention of Continue reading » Amazing!

Yes

Follow the Yeses

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Can you hear the Yeses in your life? Or have you allowed the No’s to drown them out?

I thank you God for this most amazing day, for the leaping greenly spirits of trees, and for the blue dream of sky and for everything which is natural, which is infinite, which is yes.

— e. e. cummings

In my last post, Carry On, I encouraged us (you and me) to develop strategies for dealing with all the “No’s”, the negativity that life can throw us.  But, once we’ve done that — then what?  Well, thanks to online author Steve Truitt, I have a great answer: Follow the Yeses!

You see, right after I wrote Carry On, serendipity happened and I discovered Continue reading » Follow the Yeses

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Tomorrow is Another Day

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The world wasn’t formed in a day, and neither were we. Set small goals and build upon them.

— Lee Haney

Last week, I wrote about the idea of making tiny changes.  It seemed like a good idea at the time and still does, but before I got very far into the whole experiment I discovered one of MY big problems… I never leave well enough alone.  I have two tendencies that get me into trouble – ramping up too quickly and visualizing ahead.

Today, as I was walking the dog, we came back past the local church.  As we headed for it, I wondered how well I would do as we climbed the hill.  Usually, I set a good pace and then stop and catch my breath at the top of the hill.  Well, we got to the top of the hill and I wasn’t out of breath.  There was only one conclusion to draw Continue reading » Tomorrow is Another Day

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Deliberately Finding Joy

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The strongest have their moment of fatigue.

— Friedrich Nietzsche

Wouldn’t it be great if we could find joy in our lives every single day?  More and more, research is indicating that it is our habits, of thought, of action, and of belief, that determine how we feel.  In fact, our thoughts are so important that we can change our lives by changing our thoughts.

This may seem so obvious as to be redundant for me to write it in a blog, but the fact is that while we may consciously know that our thoughts affect how we feel, many of us don’t consciously listen to that little Continue reading » Deliberately Finding Joy

Cup o’ Inspiration

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Take a short break and consider the following:

“It is our choices that show what we truly are, far more than our abilities.”

JK Rowling

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